The love and care that a family has to give should never be questioned and more than that, never be used against you.
The Blind Side follows the true story of Michael "Big Mike" Oher (Quinton Aaron), a traumatised african-american teenager with the height and strength to rival professional bodybuilders. Whilst looking for a warm place to stay for the night, Michael is spotted by the Tuohy family (Tim McGraw, Jae Head, Lily Collins), lead by the ever-determined yet loving Leigh Anne (Sandra Bullock) who insists Michael stay with them. By the motherly orders of Leigh Anne, Michael is then brought into the family, bought clothes and given a real bed and finally, he feels loved. The Tuohys even become Michael's legal family, forcing Leigh Anne to confront Michael's real mother, who faces constant problems with addiction. Through Michael we also see the damage thrown on young men like himself simply by living in "the wrong part of town". The key story element here however is American Football, in which Michael trains as an "Offensive Tackle" and finds connections to protecting his family, a purpose for his life and an opportunity to escape the void of drugs and violence he was raised in. However, out of this success comes the interest of an NCAA investigator (Sharon Conley) who believes Michael's adoption is a tactical move by the Tuohy family to further the success of their favourite university's football team.
The Blind Side displays, above all, honest emotion. It puts on display the ingrained care that a mother will have for a defenceless child, even if it is not her own. Even without the added twist of the NCAA investigator, the story of Leigh Anne taking in Michael and treating him like a son is one that still deserved telling. Scenes like the conversation Leigh Anne has with her "friends" over salad about defending Michael as a person and stripping down all the assumptions, stereotypes and racial remarks that are being made by the people around her, a particularly shocking assumption made about the fact that both Michael and Leigh Anne's daughter Collins (Lily Collins) are teenagers and that he may be tempted to "try something" puts on display the hollow way that a larger than decent percentage of the world currently thinks about african americans, young males, those coming from a dangerous upbringing and even simply men or boys who are larger than average, thus immediately becoming a threat in the eyes of the highly judgemental.
It will come of no surprise to any of you that have seen The Blind Side to know that Sandra Bullock won the Oscar for her performance and I can't see a single reason why she wouldn't. She carries the film forward with her brilliant portrayal of Leigh Anne who's complete confidence and solidarity within herself means that she is both the unstoppable force and the immovable object, easily rivalling actresses like Helen Mirren and Meryl Streep in her ability to instil fear in the hearts of anyone but it is the balance she achieves, the incredible juggling act of having that fear but blending it with the love and care of a mother who devotes anything and everything to her children. The switch between these two halves of the character come in nano seconds and for the most happen, they are present at the same time.
As well as this comes the exposure of lots of side characters that all influenced Michael's trajectory as a person, people like his high school teachers who took the time to teach him one-on-one as it was easier for him, the coach (Ray McKinnon) who saw that Michael had the physical excellence for american football but still needed the mental and psychological training involved and probably most importantly, the rest of the Tuohy family and Miss Sue (Kathy Bates) who individually helped Michael out of his defensive shell, express his passions and properly develop as a person instead of a damaged product of his rough neighbourhood upbringing.
The Blind Side utilises something overlooked in a lot of dramatic cinema, especially of that involving family; that family comes from the care of each other and not from blood relation, it is the appreciation we show and receive that proves who our family really is, no matter where they come from or what they look like.
4/5 - Family comes first, then football.